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Why it can be difficult to ask for help?

In our life, situations often happen, when we have to ask for help. But we feel uneasy, when we ask for something , so we are waiting , when people around them guess about it. In fact, from the outside it is not always possible to understand, what you need and how to support you.
Some people don't ask for help out of fear of rejection., but even , if you were refused, what are you risking? Nothing will change, and you, without the slightest disappointment, ask another person. Very important, express your thoughts correctly, so that the interlocutor understands the essence of your problem and why his help is so important to you.
We often don’t ask for help because of our pride.( I AM or I AM), because it will mean that I am weak (th). Try to treat yourself, as a person, which you need to take care of. And as soon as you succeed, It will be easier for you to ask for and accept help.. Think about, that you are helping a person to fulfill his desires to help you, and thus, give him a chance to prove himself as a good person. Very few people refuse help and many will still be grateful for that., that you turned to him.
AND, of course, and you do not refuse to help other people. If we don't help each other, then it will be possible to lose faith in humanity forever.

Author: Polina Bogdanova

Яндекс.Метрика